Introduction
A few years ago I confronted one of my closest friends about something he had been doing that had been bothering me. Nothing sinful necessarily, just annoying. My friend had a tendency to invite me to things at the last minute and then be very hurt when I’d say I couldn’t make it. So one time after he got upset that I couldn’t join him for a last minute trip to the ymca I got fed up and told him that I didn’t care for his frequent habit of giving me last minute invites. I told him that I’m a scheduled guy by nature and that his inability to plan ahead made me feel like a jerk if I didn’t drop everything and make it work. Well, my friend got pretty insulted and started yelling about how God alone had the right to judge his spontaneity and that what really needed to happen was that I needed to learn how loosen up and be more flexible with my time.
Where we are going:
- We will answer three questions – first we will ask – is God the only judge or does God permit us to judge as well? From a Biblical perspective – are we allowed to judge?
- If we are permitted to judge, what is the correct way to judge? What doesjudgment consistent with the Gospel look like?
- And lastly, if we are allowed to judge, whom are we allowed to judge and in which context?
Before we get into the first question, let’s read the text for today. 2 Timothy 4:1-4,
“I charge you in the presence of God and of Christ Jesus, who is to judge the living and the dead, and by his appearing and his kingdom: preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching. For the time is coming when people will not endure sound teaching, but having itching ears they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions, and will turn away from listening to the truth and wander off into myths.”
Question 1
So what’s happening in this passage? In 2 Timothy chapter 3 and 4 the overarching theme is that the author (Paul) is encouraging his disciple and friend, Timothy, to remain steadfast in the Gospel. To conduct himself in a manner consistent with the person and work of Jesus Christ. But in Chapter 4 verses 1-4 we see a more specific theme – judgment.
Interestingly, Paul mentions two types of judgment – the first – a salvation judgment, (v.1) “I charge you in the presence of God and Christ Jesus, who is to judge the living and the dead”.
- This is the final judgment. It is described here by Paul as the responsibility of Christ to determine the fate of the dead and the living. At this judgment the verdict will come down and there will be no rebuttal or appeal.
- This first judgment is clearly in line with the kind we are thinking of when we say “Only God can judge me.” The reality is when they say this they are correct. The responsibility of final judgment is God’s. We can’t send someone to heaven or hell nor know beyond a shadow of doubt where they are going. This is the jurisdiction of God.
But there is a second judgement Paul alludes that is a human-oriented judgment. The uncomfortable kind that requires us to call each other out on stuff. Though he doesn’t specifically use the word “judge”, in verse 2 Paul instructs Timothy to “reprove, rebuke and exhort”. These actions are sometimes translated as “correct, rebuke and encourage” which are words that are easier for me to have a handle on. Though on the surface it may not seem like this is the case, these actions can all be categorized as being judgmental. There are two steps of judgment – assess and respond. Paul is instructing timothy on the second step of judgment. You assess someones need for these things then you give them. Can you correct, disagree with or encourage someone without first judging whether they need to be corrected, rebuked or encouraged? The answer of course is that you cannot. By giving Timothy the command to correct, disagree with, and encourage, Paul is in essence commanding Timothy to judge those around him.
Question 2
So we see Paul clearly outlines two types of judgment – he talks about the generally more accepted “Why should I let you into heaven” salvation judgment as well as the less popular human judgment. So the question becomes, if a human judgment is permitted by God and even ecouraged, what does the correct form of judgment look like – a judgment that is consistent with God’s character of being all-knowing, completely righteous yet all-loving and gracious?
This kind of judgment will have two defining features:It is a judgment is consistent with and includes the Gospel . Verse 2, “preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with complete patience and teaching.” What’s the first command he says? “Preach the word of God!” So the right kind of comes on the foundation of something vital – the word of God. Last week when we talked about the seed sewn by the Sewer we talked about how the Word is the person and work of Christ, the Gospel. Correct human judgment includes comparing people to a standard of the Gospel and responding with the Gospel in a manner consistent with the Gospel.
It is conveyed with a Teacher’s Heart and undergirded with Complete Patience. Verse two, “Preach the Word…With complete patience and teaching”. Paul emphasizes the importance of the delivery. Simply assessing and speaking thr Gospel isnt enough – otherwise we might condone the men holding poster boards shouting at the drunks on 6th street. This is not patience. This is not a teacher’s heart. Think on your favorite teacher for a minute. What was it about them that you loved? My favorite teachers were always the ones that took time out of their work plan to interact with us students. I don’t think I ever would have understood multiplying polynomials if my 10th grade Algebra teacher hadn’t hosted a group of students at his house the week before each test to answer questions people had. He was patient and allowed for discussion before helping the student arrive at the conclusion.
Question 3
So we’ve seen a brief overview of Gospel centered judgment and how it essentially includes assessing and responding to those around us in a manner consistent with the Gospel and delivered in a patient, teaching way. Now let’s consider the question – to whom and on what occasion do we perform Gospel judgment?
As to “whom” – Once again, let’s look back at the text – v. 3 and 4 “For the time is coming when people will not endure sound teaching, but having itching ears they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions, and will turn away from listening to the truth and wander off into myths.” Christians and non-Christians seem to be referenced here. In verse 3 Paul seems to be referring more towards unbelievers, “For the time is coming when people will not endure sound teaching”. Whereas in verse 4 he seems to be talking more about believers or those who at least expressed interest in belief, “and will turn away from listening to the truth and wander off into myths.”
So the command to “correct, disagree with and encourage”, to judge, seems to apply both to our interactions with Christian friends and Non-Christian friends. Paul picks up on this theme when talking about how to deal with unbelievers in a passage that is consistent to 2 Tim 4 – Colossians 4:6, “Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.” Our speech should be gracious and truthful (sprinkled with salt) no matter whom we are speaking to. Because if we are only preaching the gospel to Christians, how can we ever expect non-Christians to see know the value and purpose of knowing and serving the Son of God?
Last point then I’m done. As to the “in what context” – Before you leave here thinking I’m saying you should walk up to the first person that is acting inconsistently with the Gospel and confront them, let me build on a point I touched on earlier. Remember The two steps of judgment are assessment and response. How can you assess someone without knowing them? Paul expects Timothy to be living in community with the people he’s correcting and encouraging. So The ideal context for gospel-centered assessment and response is discipleship- living life on life with someone. So to go back to my first example, the context was right – my friend and I were in a discipleship relationship. But my delivery didn’t include patience and a teachers heart and my content was not consistent with the Gospel. What I could have said was “man I appreciate the fact that because of the bond we share in Christ we have a relationship where we can speak the truth to each other even when it’s hard.”
And here’s the cool thing – when we begin to make a practice of giving and receiving correction and encouragement – we will see an awesome result – the depth and authenticity of our friendships will grow. We will feel more sincerely valued and we will be more keen to the weaknesses we struggle with. And isn’t that what we are after? The freedom to be ourselves and the challenge to grow from those around us? That is attractive not only to you and i but to believers and unbelievers in our lives. When we judge in a manner that is Gospel-centered we increase the honesty and level of closeness we have with those in our community and make the Gospel more attractive and compelling to a watching world.